Tall girls dating shorter guys
“I just want to be smaller, like you,” I remember one college friend—one exceptionally tall and exceptionally gorgeous college friend—telling me as I slid on my heels for that night’s outing.“Then maybe I would feel less like a giraffe and more like a girl.”Since when did true femininity have anything to do with size?“Would you ever consider dating a guy who was shorter than you?”It was a year after college, and the person asking me that was a guy I had just started casually dating. It’s a long story, we dated for a couple of months and things simply didn’t work out. She’s out there, and she will be willing to accept the fact that you’re shorter. But more importantly, if he’s okay with looking up to me and he’s a confident person I have been willing to get to know him better. The reason why I only date short guys is because they are a little more grounded (no pun intended) but I feel like most want to make up for their height in some way so they push themselves work wise and not so much on being a man whore. When I did date a taller guy 6’4″ it just feels like your another girl… So, if you get rejected, just move on and look for the women of your dreams. If their head doesn’t at least come to my shoulders when we’re standing up, I’m NOT okay with that.
Hang out in any girl’s college dorm room for long enough, and you know: Height matters in dating.Or have we bought the idea that we need to be smaller in order to be loved?